When girl meets boy..it will take a man and a woman.. (*:*)

Simple observations I have noticed between a MAN and a BOY, and a GIRL and a Woman. I could be wrong, but I might be right. Either or, it doesn’t really matter. This is my observations, have your own. :P

Oh well, let’s not follow the “ladies first” rule.  Let’s put Adam first.  Ayeee.. :D

Man VS Boy

(When approaching a lady)

Man: He will ask for her name and will open a conversation. tantananantanan

Boy: He will ask for her number with a million dollar smile. Katching!

(When getting her attention)

Man: He will show her what he is capable of doing. (Mr. Muscle!)

Boy: He will tell her what he can do.

(When treating a lady)

Man: He won’t treat her like a helpless creature that needs his help all the time.

Boy: He’ll make her feel that she’s just a woman, helpless and weak and only he can save her. Tarzan?

(Physical Attributes)

Man: Not so concern about his physical appearance, his personality boosts it for him without over-enhancing it.

Boy: He fixes his hair every now and then and would even look at a mirror to make sure that his nose is well aligned. Re-touched!

(Compliments)

Man: He won’t give too much compliment to a lady but will make sure that she will feel beautiful.

Boy: Photoshop and moon, stars and galaxy, he would even compare her to a mannequin or a playboy model. Nyehe!

(Checking or Check in)

Man: He won’t ask her every single minute if she has eaten already or what she’s doing. He knows that she’s old enough to know that she is hungry and has to eat.

Boy: He will ask her if she had breakfast, lunch and dinner and would even ask what she had for snacks with (“I don’t want you to get sick”) at the end.  (Dude, you’re not her father, come on!)

Schedules:

Man: He won’t worry too much about your daily activities, he has his own thing.

Boy: He would even ask if you’ve bathe already. Toinks!

Woman vs Girl

(When getting the attention of a Guy)

Girl: will wear her best red lipstick, double-padded make up (if there is something like that) and a gallon of perfume..mmmm Migraine!

Woman: will wear her smile and her brain.

Girl: Will talk so loud, and laugh so loud thinking that she’s cute doing it. (seriously?)

Woman:  Will just sit, relax and enjoy the view. Bring the beat on! (If a guy is a man, he knows what to do.)

(Attention)

Girl: will freak out if after 5 minutes, there is no message on her celphone.

Woman:  She won’t even check her celphone every minute because she’s busy with her life too; she knows that he has other life aside from her.

(Where & what to eat)

Girl: When asked where and what to eat, she would say, “Anywhere and anything, I’m OK” but will start having her tantrums or attitude once she doesn’t like the place and food or worst she won’t  talk for the rest of the day. Guessing game??

Woman: She knows what she wants and she’s not afraid to say it, but is open and will accept a suggestion. Who run the world? Girls!

(Eating)

Girl: She won’t eat that much, she’d say she’s on a diet or she’s full even though deep inside, she’s dying because of hunger. Cute eh? Tuwew!

Woman: will eat and enjoy the food knowing that food and eating is essential. Aguy!

 

Disclaimer: I’m not saying that this is negative; I know that everyone has their own turning point, and everyone has their quishy-squishy moments, It’s just merely an observation.

That’s all folks! See you again next time. :)

Eve 3<

You are ours, exclusively!

The man that we really look up to, the man who impregnated my nanay 10x to bring us all here in the earth. Should I say you are the best? Should I say you're the Great? Well, what about, you are our father, the man who loves us and the man who treat our mom so dearly. The man who never pampered us with material things but with love and guidance instead. There was a time during my childhood that I felt envy on those kids who has all the technical stuff. I would even ask nanay why you are so stingy for not buying us those techie things I saw on other kids and no matter how Nanay would explain I still can't understand. Then slowly I realized that we have a big family, and all of your kids are into school because you value education more than material things. We cannot be like them. But I may not have techie things during childhood, I have your time by which you mindlessly devoted to us, we don't have to ask for your attention because we already have it. I don't have to tell you to attend my school meetings, I know that you and nanay are gonna be there whether I like it or not. I remember one time, someone asked you to run for municipal mayor, you laugh your heart out, and said without hesitation, "they won't vote for me because they know I will be absent in all the sessions, I cannot divide my time for my family and my work." You love us, and we are your life.
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Our weekly schedules are like this:  
 Monday-Friday= (daytime) school for us / work for you
 (Night before bedtime) = checking of assignment (you would even prepare some coffee for us, for me.) 
Saturday- morning (you'd check the rice fields and your little bunch of animals                        
Afternoon= bible study (for you)Sunday- morning = church                        
Afternoon= words of God

                     
 No one is allowed not to be at home at 6pm for dinner. Eating dinner together is important and no one should be absent or there must be a valid reason. If mom can sing till midnight without getting tired, you can make us dance even without a tune if we committed a punishable mistake. You are a disciplinarian; belt, ruler, or hunger, name it coz they are my friends growing up, our friends actually. Haha we’re such a pain in the ass Tay. I cannot forget the time when you had to make a toy gun for us (im one of the boys growing up) because you can’t buy one, we’re too many, me and my two brothers, my two nephews and the two helpers that you treated as your kids too, so you made us one instead. It doesn’t make a sound, we can’t even adjust it because it’s made of wood but we loved it, we even bragged about it. The only thing that I really hate when you do is when you would help me with my assignment, especially in math, you would come up with correct answer but different formula, how can I explain it to my teachers??? Geesh tay, Im stupid with numbers you know that. How come you’re so good at it? Exchange brain please.. :P Haay.. I miss you. I miss our chant that goes like this. 

 Tatay: hello bodyguard! 
Me: Yes Brod!  

Tatay: Hep hep 
Me: Hooray!  

Tatay: Si Eva kung matulog ay?? 
Me: Tikling! 

 I even miss those moments when you would ask me to hold your point finger then I would hear a fart.A one smelly fart! Then I would hear your evil laugh. bwahaha Crazy tatay you are! We miss playing cards with you that when you stand of your seat, we can see some cards hidden unto it. Cheater! Haha I miss asking you why I am so beautiful and all that you can say is..”ahh because you are.” haha..But I know that if us your kids misses you, Nanay miss you much too much. Because she lost her protector, her spoiler, her one true love.  Tay, help us pray that God may give her more years to spend with us. Please. 

 I love you tay, yesterday,today and forever. We love you. Thank you

..Sshhhh Quiet, worry not. :)

Silence..peace..serenity....it conveys one message..a state of being calm, a SOLITUDE.  To listen to the voice of your heart and to give force to what is happening inside of you. Solitude doesn’t mean you are lonely, it means you are getting stronger and no longer afraid to face your battle alone. No longer scared to open your eyes to see the beauty of the sun.  Not afraid to wake up in the morning seeing and knowing that you’re not sharing your bed with anyone. Not afraid to take a risk and to take chances. Solitude helps you become yourself and not as what the society requires you to be. It helps you remove the fear that envelope you most of the time because you are unsure of life. It gives you time to cure whatever is broken in the inside. It gives you moment to talk to yourself, to never be afraid.. to take risk.

….June 7, 2014, Saturday, My rest day; I decided to go to a private resort which is not polluted by tourist. I want to be alone. I want some time for myself away from the busy tourist area of Boracay; to read, to think, to sleep with only the sound of waves playing on the background. The friendly crew kept asking why I am alone, letting me know that it is their first time to have a solo guest, they normally receive lovers or a group. I told them because I am, smiled and went straight to the spot which I think is best for my reading escapade. I want to tell them that I am not alone. That I have the beach which gives me peace,  I have the tree that gives me enough shades so I can read comfortably. I have my eyes to see the beauty of nature and my camera to capture it further. I have my friends back home whom I know are silently praying for me to be safe. I have my family who inspires me. I have my dreams that give me reason to focus and to prioritize on the things that really matter to me and not on those that only brings negativity. I have a lot with me. I want to tell them that if I am alone, I am not lonely, it’s my choice. I want to assure them that I am fine, that they should not treat me differently from other guest; that there is no need to be extra kind to me.…but I don’t want to talk any further. I don’t want to give explanation to everything and to everyone…I don’t want to open my mouth too much for a day. That today is my NO SPEAK day.  I want to have my silence…I am not sad, It’s only because I am having my solitude.. My peace, my serenity. My QUIET day. :)